Start with high-confidence partner abuse books, then narrow by subgenre or adjacent topics.
Facing Love Addiction
Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller
The Gift of Fear
Gavin de Becker
Why Does He Do That?
Lundy Bancroft
Mother Hunger
Kelly McDaniel
The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition
Patricia Evans
Trauma and Recovery
Judith Lewis Herman MD, Judith Lewis Herman
Stop Walking on Eggshells for Partners
Randi Kreger, Bill Eddy LCSW JD
Violent No More Workbook
Michael Paymar MPA, Anne Ganley
What Happened to You?
Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry
No Visible Bruises
Rachel Louise Snyder
Splitting
Bill Eddy LCSW JD, Randi Kreger
The Pain We Carry
Natalie Y. Gutiérrez LMFT, Jennifer Mullan PsyD
The Revolution Starts at Home
Ching-In Chen, Jai Dulani
Codependent No More
Melody Beattie
Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, and Become Irresistible
Sabrina Alexis Bendory
The Turnaway Study
Diana Greene Foster Ph.D, Diana Greene Foster
Nobody's Girl
Virginia Roberts Giuffre
A Hymn to Life
Gisèle Pelicot, Natasha Lehrer