The Evolution of Desire by David M. Buss

The Evolution of Desire

Strategies of Human Mating

David M. Buss

Basic Books · Print & ebook · December 27, 2016

A stunning study that uses evolutionary psychology to explain human mating and the mysteries of love “A drop-dead shocker.” —Washington Post Book World If we all want love, why is there so much conflict in our most cherished relationships?

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Themes
Human mating behavior, Evolutionary psychology, Love and relationship conflict
Genres
How We Evolved to Think, Human Sexuality, Evolution
Published
Basic Books, December 27, 2016

Who it’s for

  • Readers interested in evolutionary explanations of human mating behavior
  • Readers curious about cross-cultural patterns in love and mating

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About this book

A stunning study that uses evolutionary psychology to explain human mating and the mysteries of love “A drop-dead shocker.” —Washington Post Book World If we all want love, why is there so much conflict in our most cherished relationships? To answer this question we must look into our evolutionary past, argues prominent psychologist David M. Buss.

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Based on one of the largest studies of human mating ever undertaken, encompassing more than 10,000 people of all ages from thirty-seven cultures worldwide, The Evolution of Desire is the first work to present a unified theory of human mating behavior. Drawing on a wide range of examples of mating behavior—from lovebugs to elephant seals, from the Yanomamö tribe of Venezuela to online dating apps—Buss reveals what women want, what men want, and why their desires radically differ. Love has a central place in human sexual psychology, but conflict, competition, and manipulation also pervade human mating—something we must confront in order to control our own mating destiny.

Where it sits

How We Evolved to Think80%
Human Sexuality61%
Evolution28%

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Publisher categories

  • Human Sexuality
  • How We Evolved to Think
Authors
David M. Buss
Publisher
Basic Books
Published
December 27, 2016
Format
Print & ebook
Theme
Human mating behavior · Evolutionary psychology · Love and relationship conflict
Reading lane
Human Sexuality