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Love in a F*cked-up World
How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together
Dean Spade, Algonquin Books
Little, Brown and Company · Print & ebook · January 14, 2025
Reading lane: Marriage & Family
In this inspiring self-help handbook, a trans activist dares us to be the change we want to see—both out in the world, and amongst our closest connections.
At a Glance
Why This Clicks
Relationship Tools
Accessible, practical thinking about relationships, desire, and how to live them less badly.
Come here for
- plainspoken relationship guidance
- queer/trans social theory in toolkit form
Expect
- identity and worldview sharpening
- reference-friendly advice you can return to
Book Details
- Authors
- Dean Spade, Algonquin Books
- Publisher
- Little, Brown and Company
- Published
- January 14, 2025
- Format
- Print & ebook
- Theme
- Marriage & Family · Dating & Sex for Teens
- Reading lane
- Marriage & Family
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Publisher Categories
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FAMILY & RELATIONSHIPS / LGBTQ+
Gender & Sexuality
Transgender Studies
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Human Sexuality
About This Book
In this inspiring self-help handbook, a trans activist dares us to be the change we want to see—both out in the world, and amongst our closest connections. Lifelong activist and educator Dean Spade dares us to decide that our interpersonal actions are not separate from our politics of liberation and resistance. Many activist projects and resistance groups fall apart because people treat each other poorly, trying desperately to live out the cultural myths about dating and rel...
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